Everyone wants to be with someone. To be with that one person who will not only love them as they are but understand them to the very core. As known, love is not enough, there has to be respect, trust, understanding, personal space and things as such. Every relationship thrives on how much you are willing to put in, how much you are ready to sacrifice and so much more.To have a successful relationship, the list of don’ts should be given equally treated as the list of dos.
Here are few things that will ruin your relationship if not taken care of!
1. Not trusting for no apparent reason.
At times it’s good to keep your doubts alive when in a relationship but distrusting your partner for no reason is something that spoils everything.
2. Avoiding or not listening when your partner wants you to.
This is one common mistake. When in a relationship, it is important to pay attention to whatever your partner is saying because you might be the only one he/she is comfortable in sharing with.
3. Not having time for each other.
It is important and mandatory to spend some quality time with the person you love. Lack of togetherness might lead to a break-up.
4. Spending excess time.
As much as it is important to spend time together, there has to be a limit to it. Too much of anything is harmful, a pretty known fact.
This singularly outweighs every other point. Cheating acts like a virus, once in a relationship, it’s bound to get corrupted if not taken care of.
6. Taking your relationship for granted.
At times it so happens that people lose their interest in their relationship after a certain period of time and start taking their for granted which then leads to the final destruction.
Jealousy to some extent is good and even necessary but excess of it will lead to a break-up.
This point needs no explanation. Those who have been or are in a relationship will easily relate to it.
9. Keeping secrets
People often tend to hide things thinking that it might not be important or anything as such. Trust me, the harm that’s done after your partner finds out about any such secret is at times unrepairable.
10. Getting in a relationship without getting over your ex.
Just like you can’t be at two places at once, similarly, you can’t be or at least claim to be in love with two people at the same time. A relationship demands your 100%, anything less than that or divided between two will never work.